Thursday, June 19, 2008

Little Things . . . they Mean Everything

I read about a pastor from N.Y. who wrote the following ~

I went to McDonalds recently . . . because I got a coupon in an Amazon.com order for a free Southern Style Chicken Sandwich. I ordered my sandwich, a small fry and a small soda. The total came to $3.47 - I was a happy camper. I can’t remember the last time I ate lunch for under $3.50! McDonalds Southern Style Chicken Sandwich

About two bites into my ‘Chick-Fil-A-look-a-like’ sandwich I glanced at the receipt. And that’s when I noticed it:

Eat-In Tax . . . 0.25

I was a charged a QUARTER for eating my meal in the restaurant where I ordered it. I was no longer a happy camper.

Now, before you think this must be a 'New York City' thing, I want you to know that this happened outside NYC . . . in a standard suburban McDonalds.

The issue was not the actual 25 cents . . . .The issue was not 'tax' as I don't mind paying any legitimate tax (render under Caesar and all that). . . The issue was that McDonald's was charging me a hidden fee to eat the meal I purchased from them on their premises.

Here's the point: The issue wasn't the quarter but the feeling the quarter caused. It left a bad impression on me that I’ve been living with for several days now. Over a mere 25 cents, McDonald's left me feeling bad about the entire experience (and overall the chicken sandwich was pretty good).

In 1988, I heard bestselling author Harvey Mackay speak and he said -

Little things don’t mean a lot - they mean everything!

I've lived with that quote for almost two decades! In this case, one little thing at a fast-food restaurant left a huge negative impression on me."

So the question for us at FBC is this ~ ~ ~

What are the little things we are doing at which may be leaving negative impressions on our guests or regular attenders?

* Are we being stingy with printed materials?
* Are we skipping the 'little things' in worship and not telling people when we are about to pray or when its time to sit down?
* Are we assuming everyone knows what to do and where everything is? I'm thinking of the children's time, it will be announced for now on.
* Are there funky odors in the bathrooms that a 25-cent (okay 99 cent) deodorizer would solve?
* Are there lights burned out in the children’s area or somewhere else?
* Are the labels on the envelopes we mail out more than a little crooked? (Harvey Mackay is in the envelope biz)
* Are we giving our guests a 25 cent greeting, while giving our old buddies a $5 greeting?

You get the picture. Let me remind you again ~

Little things don’t mean a lot, they mean everything!

What changes do you/we/I need to make this week that will remove negative impressions and leave people saying 'Wow!' when they leave your church on Sunday?

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Joshua's Debut

Tonight Joshua had the opportunity to pitch. It was the first time he has ever pitched. He's always wanted to pitch, but never has. He entered the game in the 2nd inning and ended up giving up an infield hit, he made an error after picking up a ground ball, and between all that he struck out the other three batters. In the next inning, he gave up an infield hit, threw a runner out at first, struck a player out and got another ground ball out. An impressive debut. His team finished in 2nd place. A good job!!

Joshua also made the all-star team for 10 year olds. So, he is excited about that. Good for the boy. We celebrated with DQ.

Monday, June 16, 2008

The Tiger E(A)ffect

Did you see the US Open Golf tournament yesterday? Tiger Woods is amazing. He needed to make a 15 foot putt to force a tie and go t oa Monday playoff and he made the putt. In fact the guy who was winning (who is ranked 158th in the world, Tiger is 1) watched it in the clubhouse and said "I expected him to make it." Someone then added, "well, he's Tiger Woods."

How amazing to have people expect you to make it because you have proven yourself already. When Woods was asked about his bad start to the day, he shrugged it off and said, he knew if he could play even par he would win. He was one off from even, and he would have won.

Imagine the affect Woods will have playing this guy (Rocco Mediate) who has never won a major championship, competing head to head against a guy who has 13 majors. The effect of Woods certainly has an affect on his competition.

Woods relishes the pressure, simply because he does not see it as pressure, and plays right through it. He practices and practices and practices. Recall the video on the final Sunday of the spiritual discipline series about Woods.

Think about how dedicated we are to our spiritual lives and how the pressure of life should draw us even closer to God.

Church invite

On Saturday I was talking to a car salesman, looking at cars and talking to the sales manager, we were talking about religion, they knew I was a pastor, and the salesman and I spoke at length about faith, marriage, etc. I invited him to church, and how cool to see him and his wife walk into church yesterday morning.

It's not always easy to walk into a church for the first time, but glad they came.

Last week I had 3 significant conversation about Jesus with other people. That's not as much as I would like, but hopefully them make an impact. One of them I mentioned earlier is the banker. She said she will come to church, so I am looking for her to come and will find more reason to get to the bank. Maybe I'll need to get a crisp, clean $100 bill.

So . . . who are you talking to about Jesus?
Are you talking to anyone about who Jesus is in your life?

Sunday Reflections

I really enjoyed and more than that, felt the power from our first two worship songs yesterday. Good job, Doug and the praise team.

I also liked the opening prelude video. It was something different, whose theme was very basic, "WORSHIP THE LORD." Let me know your thoughts on it.

Worship seemed to run smoothly even with my $100 offer. It really is amazing to think God does not want us to live lives filled with guilt, but wants us to be redeemed and experience His grace and live that way, being grace bearers who make a difference.

We had a good Father's Day, we went to Texas Roadhouse for a great lunch, enjoyed our time together, and told one another why we love them. It was fun to do. It was also fun to stick Zachary, and then Joshua's heads into their bowls of salad. The boys loved it, it was silly and not the way mom and dad normally act when out for a meal.

Remember to make a difference in the world in the name of Jesus.

Friday, June 13, 2008

Doctoral Reply

It's amazing how fast the turnaround was. They received my dissertation on Monday and today I had a response from my first and main reader. I was not sure I wanted to open it and read it. Below is the correspondence from Dr. Larsen,

"Your initial draft is in hand - I love it! You have done a great job! There are of course matters we want to discuss in the oral defense. Dale, the form editor, will have some suggestions for your final draft; we will need to talk about the length. Thanks, by the way, for the reference list. We will now wait for Dr. Wayne Johnson's reaction - we will be patient because he has done very few of these. But you should be hearing from us fairly soon. Again, praise God. I am very pleased with what you have done. Yours as ever in Christ who is our hope, David L. Larsen Isa 54:10"

WOW! I couldn't believe what I was reading. He was writing about my writing. How cool and praise God. I know there will be corrections and I was about 110 pages too long, but some of the appendecies can be cut. For now ... a big deep sigh of relief.

Blogging issues

For some reason the blogs are not posting in the morning. They are all coming in late. I'll try to check on the reason, sorry.

Fill 'Er up (Part 2)

This may not make us feel better, but some gas prices from around the world are ~

Sierra Leone $18.43/gallon
Norway $10.37
Turkey $10.14
Netherlands $10.11
Germany $9.20
Italy $8.78
England $8.56
Israel $7.95
Spain $7.54

down to some pretty lows . . . Anyone willing to move?

Indonesia $2.46/ gallon
Mexico $2.35
Brunei $1.48
Egypt $1.21
Kuwait $.79
Iran $.42
Nigeria $.38
Venezuela $.19

Major difference between North and South ~

N. Korea $2.69
S. Korea $7.38

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gasoline_usage_and_pricing

Fill 'er up

I remember the days when we used to go to Martin's gas station, and my dad would say 'fill 'er up with ethyl.' Oh for those good 'ol days of $.299 per gallon.

A headline in today's Indy Star said by August gas could be $4.15 . . . oops, they were wrong, by June 12 it was $4.199 (don't forget that 9/10 of a penny). One year ago, gas was an incredibly high $3.079.

So, what are you going to do different?

How should the church cope with higher gas prices?

How do you think it will impact the church?

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Old Posts

Somehow I realized these posts from the other day did not make it on the blog. So here they are in one blog.


Doctoral project
I recieved an email from Trinity, they received my box with my project in it. Yahoo!! Now Dr. Larsen has the pleasure of reading 'til he drops.
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Conversations
I had to stop at the bank, we bank in Anderson, a carry over from Dearborn. Most everyone at the bank branch knows us, mostly Debbie. She has spoken about church to one of the tellers and today I sat with her for about 30 minutes and talked about church, why go, issues of forgiveness, etc. A great conversation, and I am hoping she will come this Sunday.

It's great to have these types of conversations, when someone feels free to ask, and I can give an intelligent enough response that they can understand. God is really awesome the way He works!! We just need to allow Him to work through us.
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Sunday Reflections
I was really moved by the video we watched in the evening service. Ed Young was brutally blunt, and I loved it. His one prayer for the church was for the church "to wake up!" I wish everyone in the morning service could see it. He spoke to me as well as anyone about waking up from our spiritual slumber. He went so far as to proclaim if you don't tithe and serve in the church, he does not consider you a member of the church, "you are just taking up dust on the church rolls." That is an in your face comment. Anyone who wants to watch it, even in a Sunday School class, is welcome to borrow it.

The message was about 27 minutes long.It's always fun doing child dedications, hoping the little ones don't scream and cry. It's amazing the great responsibility God gives to people to parent children. I am awestruck when I look at Joshua and Zachary and see how they are growing.

We had fun at the swim party at the Dickey's. They put on quite a spread, we had lots of fun, eating and splashing and just hanging out in the heat.

Baseball Games

Quite a night at the ball yard. Joshua's team won 5-0. Joshua was walked once and struck out once. The time he walked, he tried to score from 3rd on a passed ball, but was out at home. His coach was not happy since he told him not to go. A good learning tool!!

Actually two of the coaches made mistakes and had runners thrown out in the game.

In Zachary's game he was 3 for 3. All singles, he did well to hit the ball. He's getting there. He really had to run hard to beat out one of the hits. He then over-ran second base and was heartbroken since it was in the last inning, and they lost 9-6.

I told him it was a good learning tool. He made a mistake and he'll probably never overrun 2nd or 3rd again. It made me think about my mistakes. . . how many times have I learned from them, or have I repeated them over and over again?

How about you, are you learning from your mistakes, or making them again and again?

Why Mosquito Bites Itch!!

Zachary asked me that question, so with a little Internet research, here you go -

"Did you know that it's only female mosquitoes that bite you? They eat mostly nectar, but when it's time to make eggs and lay them, they need to eat protein (aka - your blood). When the mosquito stabs her needle-like mouthparts through the skin of her victim, she injects her saliva, teeming with digestive enzymes and anticoagulants to help her drink more quickly. Your body sees that as an enemy and produces histamine to ward off infection. That little pink bump left on your skin is an allergic reaction to the mosquito's saliva. (Hence, it itches because it is a foreign body invading our bodies.

FYI!!

Monday, June 09, 2008

Doctoral project

I recieved an email from Trinity, they received my box with my project in it. Yahoo!! Now Dr. Larsen has the pleasure of reading 'til he drops.

Conversations

I had to stop at the bank, we bank in Anderson, a carry over from Dearborn. Most everyone at the bank branch knows us, mostly Debbie. She has spoken about church to one of the tellers and today I sat with her for about 30 minutes and talked about church, why go, issues of forgiveness, etc. A great conversation, and I am hoping she will come this Sunday.

It's great to have these types of conversations, when someone feels free to ask, and I can give an intelligent enough response that they can understand. God is really awesome the way He works!! We just need to allow Him to work through us.

Sunday Reflections

I was really moved by the video we watched in the evening service. Ed Young was brutally blunt, and I loved it. His one prayer for the church was for the church "to wake up!" I wish everyone in the morning service could see it. He spoke to me as well as anyone about waking up from our spiritual slumber. He went so far as to proclaim if you don't tithe and serve in the church, he does not consider you a member of the church, "you are just taking up dust on the church rolls." That is an in your face comment. Anyone who wants to watch it, even in a Sunday School class, is welcome to borrow it. The message was about 27 minutes long.

It's always fun doing child dedications, hoping the little ones don't scream and cry. It's amazing the great responsibility God gives to people to parent children. I am awestruck when I look at Joshua and Zachary and see how they are growing.

We had fun at the swim party at the Dickey's. They put on quite a spread, we had lots of fun, eating and splashing and just hanging out in the heat.

Thursday, June 05, 2008

Zachary's Doctor

Zachary had his 3 month pediatric endocrinologist appointment today. All went well. He's growing normally, no abnormalities . . . just an active and as he says "energetic" young boy.

Praise God!!

It's a reminder to count our blessings. To look around us and see how very much we are blessed. It's too easy to dwell on the negatives, on what is not good, but there is so much good right in front of us and God seeks to bless us more and more, but we must be ready and connected to Him to fully experience what He desires to give to us.

Special Delivery

I mailed my project this afternoon. A huge relief, and 2 weeks not to worry about it, until the email comes and I have to get back to work.

For now, it feels great to be done . . . good or bad.

ball game

Hey since it's so late, why not one more post.

Joshua tried a new batting stance and did really well. He had a bunt hit, a perfect bunt.

He struck out, but he fouled off five pitches in a row. A great at bat.

Then he got hit by a pitch on his foot.

He was happy about the game. They won, too, 9-2.

FINI'

Not sure what language fini' is in, I know it is not Greek or Hebrew, but I know it means finished. I'm done. It took forever to format and reformat my dissertation, and there was only one very minor mistake which meant recopying one page. Otherwise, all 359 pages plus additions is ready to go. It will be in the mail tomorrow.

Thanks for your prayers. They came in great. Now to wait to hear what the readers have to say. At least for 2-3 weeks, I won't worry. Supposedly, my reader will get back to me in that time frame.

Well, it is now 3:45 a.m., I am tired, but feel good!!!!!

Time to go home and go nite nite for a few minutes.

Tuesday, June 03, 2008

Rudeness

Had someone dump a lot, and I mean a lot of grass by one of our evergreens in the back part of the lot. After the rain, it really stunk. We moved it and dumped it on someone else's land (NOT!).

But how rude someone had to be, and most likely a neighbor somewhere behind did it. It would have killed a lot of grass in the back. Sometimes I just don't get people. I think I'll put up a sign saying, "This is a no grass dumping zone!"

Weekend Worship

Remember this Sunday I'll be representing all women in talking to us men folk about what you want us to know.

So . . . what more do I need to know so that all the men will be in the know!!

Writing Update

Still not sent in, but that is okay with the doctoral program. Hopefully tomorrow will be the day. I had some major evening glitches with margins and some stuff that is way over my head regarding the page set up, etc. Fortunately, Debbie understands more than I do, and she greatly helped out.

Writing and Writing

Well, I finished the main part of the paper, exactly 200 pages, adding in the appendeces will make it closer to 350. I am hoping to get it in the mail tomorrow.

Ball game blues

After a wow game last week, the Eagles have been flying pretty low. Another loss tonight, 5 walks one error and only one hit in one inning led to their demise, plus some poor hitting. In fact, I would call it no hitting at all. They lost 6-3. That's two losses in a row to teams they could beat.

One player on Joshua's team struck out without swinging and his dad grounded him for 3 weeks. You know, as much as I want Joshua to hit the ball and be a star, this is getting a little ridiculous. That boy is not a star, and even if he is, he's really just a kid wanting to try and play ball and have fun and do well.

I know I put pressure on the boys at times, I know what they can do better than they do, but if they ever don't want to play, that's okay with me, too. Just go out, do your best and have fun, win or lose.

Monday, June 02, 2008

One last note for the night

I mentioned I had a great encouragement at night, also had one in the morning, after worship. It is so nice to be encouraged.

I also had two people in the same family encourge me in separate emails during the week.

THANK YOU!! THANK YOU!! THANK YOU!!

Writing and Writing

Well, I think I am about there. I am estimating I will mail the project in to Trinity on Tuesday. My best estimates are a total of 335 pages. Hopefully I have not been too wordy. After sending it in I will receive word within 3 weeks about the next steps. Either a major rewrite or revisions, but with the approval to move into the next step which would be my oral defense of what I have worked on and the theology backing it.

Pray for the latter to occur over the summer, which would give us a short trip to Chicago, see family, hang out a little, hopefully celebrate a little, then back home.

Sunday, June 01, 2008

Sunday Reflections

I am sitting and typing while Joshua is drumming. Whose idea was this anyway . . .?

Anyway, people seemed moved this morning by all the songs. It seemed like that perfect blending of newer and older songs; especially after Shout to the North.

Talking about our legacies can be powerful. Look at the legacy Christ left for us to follow. That makes communion more powerful.

I am glad we were able to get the video from the song Legacy working this morning. The more we use technology the more it can seem like a curse, but there is so much good that can come from it.

Tonight was another issue as the download for worship didn't work. It said it was a corrupted file. Oh what a joy. It will be worked out before the middle of the week.

I had a nice compliment this evening, it's always great to feel encouragement from others. I don't think we realize the power of encouragement until we get it, then it moves us to want to do even better. So, thank you brother, for the words of grace, love and encouragement.

Time to put the boys in bed, then onto the doctorate. Needs to be in the mail by Tuesday.

Blessings and go make a difference this week!!!

Saturday, May 31, 2008

Baseball thoughts

While I love sports and am thrilled my kids do as well, I just wonder about the extreme pressure which we (the parents) put on the kids. I help coach both teams, more Joshua's than Zachary's, and the pressure is unbearable at times.

One of the reasons I left organized baseball was the parents, they were obnoxious. Seriously, if you hang out at games long enough, if you make it through two games you will see it and especially hear it. Parents yelling at kids, telling them it's okay when the strike out, telling the kid to throw the ball over the plate, telling them they are no good. It's intense out there. I know I can get pretty intense as well. I keep telling myself to be cool, this is not the world series, and if it was, it still would not be the end of the world.

Anyways, just a couple of rambling thoughts.

News from the diamond

The day started early, Joshua's game at 10; Zachary's at 12.

Joshua's team was coming off of a huge victory, they beat the best team, and were tied for first. Not after today, they played a team with only 1 victory and they got whumped. It was ugly on their side, the other team played a great game. A bad day for the kids.

Zachary's team jumped to a 3-0 lead, but were losing 7-3 going into the last inning. They scored one run, then loaded the bases, and up comes you know who . . . Zachary.

It's a parent's dream and nightmare. The first pitch was a called strike, it hit the dirt, no way it was a strike, but I'm a bias and objective (!) dad. Then a ball, then a foul ball. Okay kid, you've got your timing down, just hit the ball, anywhere, don't whiff. The pitch comes and Zachary launches a fly ball to left that goes for a triple. The game is tied. What a moment for the kid. He got stranded at third, and he was furious to the point of tears that he did not score. Twice he made it to third but did not score. He was angrier about not scoring than tying the game.

Anyway, the other team scored one run in the bottom of the last inning to win.

Friday, May 30, 2008

After School Surprises

After school we went to East of Chicago pizza for a celebration lunch. Then on to home and Joshua's great surprise. I woke up early this morning, 6:15 a.m. just to make sure Joshua did not happen to walk into the family room.

He was beside himself with joy and excitement. He was totally speechless, his smile was amazing. It was so cool to so Liberty enjoy his joy. While they are only in 4th grade, it was just neat to see someone, another kid his age simply be happy for him.

It really makes me think about how we let the issues of life get to us, when there is really so much good right in front of us.

Zachary happened to walk in just before Joshua and his mouth was stuck open. He too, was so excited. Great moments in life!!

Dreams Thoughts and Ruminations

Just thinking on paper. . .


What really are dreams, thoughts and ruminations? I particularly like that last word . . . ruminations. What does it mean to ruminate? It means to chew something over; literally to chew ones cud; to ponder; or to meditate. Sometimes we need to take our dreams, our thoughts and do more than let them flitter in and out just as quickly as they came in.


I really don’t think we do this well; that is, ruminate. Just a couple of thoughts ~ ~ when was the last time you allowed your dreams, not daydreams, but real dreams for life, take hold? For most people it is pretty rare. Yet, it is healthy, in fact, I would claim necessary to have dreams and thoughts and visions of what could be, not what shouldn’t be, but what should be. I don’t often let people in too deep on my dreams, most of the time you can kinda guess, but I’ll let you in on a couple of my dreams (personal and church).


Personal ~ I am passionate about Jesus, hence, I am passionate about life. It’s easy to allow life to suck the life out of you. I need to guard against that. So, personally, I want to be excited, vibrant, relevant to the world because my relationship with Jesus is exciting, vibrant, and relevant.


I want my family life to be filled with joy, excitement and healthy passion for one another. I want us to be a family of encouragers, people who look at one another and seek to find what is good and to even look at the intent of another’s actions, and look for the good in it, which leads us to be positive people.


Notwithstanding is my desire to finish my doctorate. I have about 5-7 pages left. Then I want to investigate teaching at the college level. Just one class here and there, not a full time thing. I want to be the pastor for the next 13 years at FBC. I have thoughts about a book, that I will talk to InterVarsity Press about. Talks started yesterday at the baccalaureate.


I want to be healthy . . . physically, spiritually, emotionally and intellectually.


Some really aren’t dreams, but goals or needs.


We will do church dreams in a couple of days, I might add a few more thoughts to what I have already written.

SCHOOLS OUT . . . !!

Schools out for the summer!! The kids are thrilled, not so sure about parents.

We take Joshua and Zachary out for lunch on the last day of the year, a tradition, which developed without our knowing it (those are the fun kind). We had an addition this year, Liberty, Joshua's girl friend joined us, then came home with us and witnessed the grand unveiling of his drums. The kid was speechless, so thrilled to see how joy filled they can be.

Joshua received all A's, only he and one other student did that for all report cards. He received an honors award and a music award for being one of the top 3 band members. WAY TO GO!!

Zachary received all A's and 2 B+'s. He was only 3 points away from straight A's. He did great, especially considering we had a number of issues with his blood sugar spiking to the 3-400's and dropping as well, which does impact his concentration. So PROUD OF HIM!

Baccalaureate

The youth did a great job singing and speaking. David Zimmerman from Intervarsity did a wonderful job speaking to the youth and guests. He lives in my old stomping grounds and works with a friend from seminary. We talked about books and about Spiritual Disciplines and he expressed interest in an idea for a book or study for families and spiritual disciplines. Yikes!! That is cool!! It's been a dream to write something that could actually help people in their spiritual journey with Christ.

My Drummer Boy

I set up the drums for Joshua tonight. It's almost 1:30 a.m. and he will get them tomorrow. He will be getting straight A's for the year . . . !! WOW. I never would have dreamt one of my kids could accomplish this. Not with my lineage, maybe Debbie's.

I'm proud of him! And want you to know that. So, I think I have the drums set up and I will hope to keep him out of the family room until after school is out tomorrow, then surprise . . . surprise . . . surprise!!! Go-oo-oo-lly!

Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Baseball heaven

Joshua's team was playing the undefeated team tonight, with the two best pitchers in the league pitching. Every out on Joshua's team was a strike out. Most of their outs were strikeouts. The score was tied 0-0 in the bottom of the 6th inning, when Joshua's team loaded the bases and with 2 outs, one of the kids who I don't think has a hit yet this year, blooped a single and his team erupted with a great 1-0 game. It was a great game on both sides.

Hanging with Joshua

I think it still amazes me that my son wants to have dad around to eat lunch together at school. Joshua is at the age when dad's are not quite so cool, but I am honored to eat with him. It does not hurt when I bring him a McDonald's milk shake. Added to that is having a good relationship with his friends as well. Having one boy say he wants to be on my team is uplifting for an old guy like me.

After eating (I might add, if you knew what some of those kids are eating, throwing out, and not eating . . . WOW!) we went out for recess. They decided to play one giant kickball game. Joshua did well, a home run and on base every time. . . just like dad. I hung out and watched and officiated disputed calls. Also pretty cool when his girl friend ran over to me and jumped at me and we just hung out and talked for 15 minutes about family, life, allergies, shots, smoking, parents, the summer.

Pretty cool moments in the day with my boy and his friends!

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Tired

Ever fall asleep at night, and wake up ten minutes later, still tired, but not able to sleep. That was my night last night. Too much on the brain I guess.

I ended up not falling asleep until around 2:30, long night and longer day.

We also had a new stove delivered but we needed help installing it, since the plug was attached to the circuit breaker and Sears will not touch that. So thanks Dennis for helping. Then I had to saw away some of the molding so the oven would fit in its nice slot.

But it's in and the woodwork is mostly finished and I did not break anything or destroy anything. That is a success right there. Only a little bloodshed for Dennis and myself after he left.

You know, it was frustrating yet kind of fun to try something like that and have it not be a bust.

Unchartered Territory

Yup, I am entering a foreign land. Not sure what lies before me, I know lies behind me, but . . .

what is it?

The conclusion. That is where I am at. I have been a writing fiend and am now on page 172. All I have left is my conclusion (probably 10 pages {?}), I need to add one section I held off on, then add in the appendices and I will pop that baby in the mail. Then wait for a response. At this point, there will now be 2 readers who give feedback and ask for changes. If it is mostly acceptable, then hopefully over the summer I'll be making that nerve-wracking trip to Deerfield for my oral defense. I don't think anyone will want to sit with me on the trip, since I'll be a little anxious.

Anyway, that is the good news, and that was my break, now back to writing.

Monday, May 26, 2008

Vacation

We are considering going to Spirit Song at King's Island for a short vacation the weekend of July 11-12. Spirit Song is a concert series at the King's Island ampitheater.

Catch this schedule for Friday and Saturday - - -

Friday, July 11
3:00pm - Group 1 Crew
3:45pm - BarlowGirl
4:45pm - Skillet
6:00pm - Jeremy Camp
7:15pm - Mark Stuart
8:15pm - Casting Crowns

Saturday, July 12
3:00pm - Stellar Kart
3:45pm - RED
4:45pm - Pillar
6:00pm - David Crowder Band
7:15pm - Tom Richter
8:15pm - tobyMac

Joshua and Zachary already like Skillet, Jeremy Camp, Casting Crowns and Tobymac.

Sounds like a great weekend, weather permitting.

Wood Bees - part 2

I sprayed a hornet and wasp spray in the holes in the wood last night and this morning there 11 dead bees on the front porch. Not as many male bees flying around the entrance, although I could hear the buzzing in the wood.

I think I am going to use some straws and spray more into the holes, knowing this will go deeper and hopefully kill off more, especially the queen and the eggs. Then it will be time to fill in the holes.

Keep your ears open tomorrow if you hear me scream that the queen is loose. Remember, only the female has the stinger. Hmm . . . nope, I'm not going there about similarities between female wood bees and _ _ men. Yup, I'll admit it; I'm chicken!!!

Saturday fun

Went to the girls softball field with Joshua and spent quality time with him. Hit ground balls, fly balls, let him pitch, did batting practice.

When we got home, he said, it was one of the best Saturday's of his life. WOW!! Sometimes we don't realize the impact we make on our children / loved ones.

Sunday Reflections

We had a good worship, many people were missing, but we still had a good crowd.

The song about the Trees in the field (?) had a Jewish melody to it. Kinda cool.

I heard a number of comments about the sermon. I think we need to be reminded about life in general, not that we do it wrong, but we get caught up in the small, trivial and unnecessary aspects which end up taking away from the big things.

I really enjoy the video American Dream. Next week, we might hear Nicole Nordeman singing Legacy.

How do you your loved ones know you love them?

Sunday, May 25, 2008

wood bees


We have an epidemic of wood bees. They look just like bumble bees, but bore holes in wood, and we have lots of them above our entrance to the house. Not sure how to rid ourselves of these new friends. I kill about 3-4 a day using a rake and smacking one with the rake, it flies off the house, and falls to the ground and I kill it.

They actually bore holes in the wood and live in the wood making little passage ways and stay in there at night and come out in the day. Any remedies would be appreciated. We can hear them above our heads in the awning in the entryway outside the house.

I learned on the internet that only the female stings and the males are guarding the entrance. The males fly around like they are crazed, often bumping into each other. There is a spray you need to spray into the holes and along the passage ways which can be up to 4 feet long.

Oh my nose

Yesterday my allergies hit full speed ahead. Runny nose, postnasal drip, scratchy throat, and head stuffiness. I finally took allergy medicine this evening, hoping it knocks me out.

Lots of people are complaining about severe allergies this year. Welcome to Indiana.

My little CHICK-a-dee

The joys of having children is helping them to experience life . . . right? So, last night, Saturday, our little pet chicken, George decides he is going to squawk at 1 a.m. That's right, 1 a.m. he decided it was time to make some noise. After listening to his chirping for awhile, I went downstairs, as if he was another child, thought he might be hungry and gave him some food. This did not stop him, so I eventually got up again, moved his box into another room and went to sleep.

But, Zachary woke up at 1:30, went to the bathroom, sneezed, blew his nose, it was now 1:48. The last time I saw the clock it was 2:36. It was a short night. And I'm tired.

We made a special delivery this afternoon to the Haron's to deliver a new friend for their other baby chickens. Last I saw George was low chicken on the totem pole. He was by himself, and I kinda felt bad for the guy/gal, but I'll get over it, and so will George. All the other chicks are white, while he is black and white, so we can always pick him out. I wonder if he will come to us when we call out his name? Do chickens have long term memory? Oh, the problems of the day!!

Friday, May 23, 2008

Alice

With school out for some and just about over for the rest, I can only be reminded of my favorite end of the year song. Alice Cooper sang, "Schools out for the summer!!!" What great music . . . aah, the memories, which reminds me of Barbara Streisand. Wow, Babs and Alice in one paragraph!

Anyway, for all those who remember that wild and crazy Alice Cooper, here is a great quote from Alice - - -

Quote from Alice Cooper in the book Life on Planet Rock, page 66-67:

I was pretty much convinced all my life that there was just one God, and there was Jesus Christ, and there was the devil. You couldn't believe in God without believing in the devil. I always tell bands that the most dangerous thing you can do is to believe in the concept of the devil or the concept of God, because you aren't giving them full credit.

When you believe in God, you've got to believe in the all-powerful God. He's not just God, he's the all-powerful God, and he has total control over everyone's life. The devil on the other hand, is a real character that's trying his hardest to tear your life apart. If you believe that this is just mythology, you're a prime target, because you know that's exactly what Satan wants: to be a myth. But he's not a myth, of this I'm totally convinced of that.

So here we are. We have God pulling us one way and the devil pulling us another, and we're in the middle. We have to make a choice. And everyone, at some point in their life, has to make that choice. When people say, "How do you believe this? Why do you believe this?" I just say nothing else speaks to my heart. This doesn't speak to my intellect, it doesn't speak to my logic-it speaks right to my heart and right to my soul, deeper than anything I've ever thought of. And I totally believe it. That being said, I'm not a very good Christian. I mean, none of us are ever good Christians. That's not the point. When you're a Christian, it doesn't mean you're gonna be good, it means you've got a harder road to pull.

Makes me want to turn Schools out. . . just a little louder this year.

The Question

I sent emails to all those I had email for asking this question for Sunday's message ~

If you could hear your parents tell you one thing, what would you want them to tell you?

If I don't have your email and you want to respond, send an email to me at
mishana826@yahoo.com

All responses will be anonymous, but I will share the results on Sunday.

Michael

Breakfast at Gaither's

Had a great breakfast at Gaither's this morning sponsored by Mike and Connie Owens. It was a way to say thank you to local pastors. Great food and a great speaker. A woman named Ann Smith. What an amazing and powerful message she had. We should have her come and speak to FBC. She was a missionary for many, many years; and is one of those octogenarians who is full of life and passion and vibrancy.

Thursday, May 22, 2008

All Business

I used to not like Business Meetings, but I am coming to enjoy them more and more. I think for too long, business meetings have been labeled as bad, and while I really don't relish them each month, I believe they are golden opportunities to cast vision and cut down possible rumors and actually run them more like Town Hall meetings, where you can have more give and take and discussion about the future.

Last night was no exception. We spoke about some rumors, about my doctoral project and attendance, and some quick thoughts on it. The main thing at FBC is the fact that we have stayed relatively stable for the past 10 years which is good on the one hand in a declining area. However, we should be growing, and that is the focus for the church.

Digression time. . . .

A retired pastor said growth is not all there is in a church. He said faithfulness is number one, and if you are faithful that is more important than growth. You may want to stone me for this, but I disagree about 100%. Although I didn't tell him. My belief is that if you are faithful you will be fruitful. Read John 15

1"I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. 2He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful. 3You are already clean because of the word I have spoken to you. 4Remain in me, and I will remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me.

5"I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. 6If anyone does not remain in me, he is like a branch that is thrown away and withers; such branches are picked up, thrown into the fire and burned. 7If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be given you. 8This is to my Father's glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples.

9"As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. 10If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father's commands and remain in his love. 11I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete. 16You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit—fruit that will last. Then the Father will give you whatever you ask in my name. 17This is my command: Love each other.

Okay, I'm preaching now. . . I love this. This is our lives, we are called to be fruit bearers, and the only way to bear fruit is to be connected to the source of all life, CHRIST. The KJV calls it 'abiding' the NIV calls it 'remaining'. I call it FAITHFULNESS. If we aren't faithful we aren't going to bear fruit, period. We often think we are faithful, but the sign of faithful for me, is you/I become fruit bearers, not just for today, but as Jesus said in verse 16, it will be fruit that will last.

Sermon is now over. I hope we get it. We have the power, the power comes from God through Jesus and the Holy Spirit,
we have the people. It's all there, right before us and in us. God calls us to live the super abundant life. Let's do it . . . Amen? Amen!

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Writing Cramp

I gained about 7 pages tonight, and am cruising along. It's time for bed, since my forearms are hurting. The chair in our office at home is too low for the desk. Time for a new chair . . . maybe one that gives massages.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

New Cars and Marital Advice

It's amazing how God opens up opportunities if we are willing to enter.

Late this afternoon I was in Anderson and stopped by Ed Martin Toyota to look at a couple of cars. The sales rep spoke to me and I took a couple of test drives and as we were talking he said he was getting married this weekend in Colorado, he's even flying his pastor to Estes Park for the wedding (how cool is this guy!!)

Anyway, we start talking about marriage and he asked me what I thought, and I told him all I knew about marriage, men and women. The conversation lasted about 10 seconds. Actually, we had a great conversation, he took some notes and we parted ways. I was hoping I could get a marital advice discount, but no such luck. Irregardless, it was a great conversation, refreshing to talk about Christ openly and freely at a car dealership.

I did like both cars, the Yaris and the Corolla. I've had many Toyotas before, all were great! But we'll see, I then test drove a Chevy, but it did not compare to the Toyotas. More to come.

Monday, May 19, 2008

Zachary ballgame

Zachary had a baseball game while Joshua had a band concert. Joshua's group really played much better than in the Fall. I was impressed with their improvement. . . kudos to Mr. Hochstetler.

Got to Zachary's game as the other team was breaking it open, scoring 8 runs in the 4th inning. At that point the score was 8-0. It was a nasty night, rainy and cold, what fun. Zachary has hit the ball, but never scored and has had some good plays made on him. Finally, he got a base hit and eventually scored. I love when my kids have that big smile on their faces when they are so happy and excited.

That's what it's all about!!!

Doctoral update

I have been doing lots of typing at night and am making progress. I have about 40-50 more pages, I think, until I am at a point where I will wrap things up. I am on page 136, but with my appendix, which includes sermons and curriculum, etc. I will end up around 300 pages.

I am at the point where I am trying to interpret the data which has been compiled to see what it all means. Sometimes, that is not easy to do, but trends end up appearing which becomes interesting. I have been linking our spiritual discipline scores to the state of the church which helps put things in perspective and makes the totals a little more relevant for me in my study.

Eventually, sometime in July, I think, I will present my findings (learnings) to the church on a couple of Sunday or Wednesday evenings and try to lead us in a discussion of what this all means and what comes next for us.

For now, just remember me in prayer. I'll try to give better updates as I progress.

Sunday, May 18, 2008

Sunday Night Reflections

Fun day at worship. It's fun to laugh a lot and learn about God's call in our lives. I heard a lot of positive responses to the first talk about what men want women to know. I still find it incredible that very few marital and premarital books/studies discuss the dynamics of Ephesians 5:33.

There was actually so much to discuss about what it means to respect someone, that sometime later we'll have to deal with the entire issue of respect.

Thanks so much to my friends from Dearborn who came and sang 3 songs. Many commented that they enjoyed their music.

For the next two weeks we'll talk about kids and families. Then on June 8, it will be about what women want men to know, then Father's Day will feature a man of the Bible, then marriage on June 22.

Pastor Doug will preach on June 29. You won't want to miss his morning debut. Not to put the pressure on, but . . . I look forward to being able to have a week off.

Have a great week, be a blessing to others in the name of Jesus.

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Andy Stanley Quote

Andy is the son of Pastor Charles Stanley; and Andy has a large and growing church in north Atlanta. This morning as I was reading in a leadership devotional book, I read this quote from Andy ~

You can't resist the will of God and receive the grace of God at the same time.

Hmm. . . make you wonder a little about yourself, it does for me. I wonder how many times I have resisted God's will, yet expected to receive His grace and I might add, blessing.

I'll chew on that one for awhile today. How about you?!

Monday, May 12, 2008

3 strikes and you're out

Joshua's baseball team got their second win of the season and Joshua got his first hit of the season and an RBI. He was so thrilled and excited, smiling all the way to first and all the way home, as he sped around the bases on a bases clearing triple by the next batter.

It's so fun to see your child with the biggest possible smile on their face. Just had to brag on him.

Malls to Sanctuaries

I heard an interesting broadcast by Rex Miller. His view of the under 45 generation is that they are wanting to move from ~

polished prepackaged events to unmediated, hands-on experiences
Main Event to Meaningful Encounters
Product to Process
Knowing to Doing
visual language to multi-media
Mall to Sanctuaries
chasing the new thing to reframing and layering the past
permanency to mobility


I think this is part of what is implied by the refocus of church for people under 45 ... who are primarily seeking big visions, mentoring relationships, and practical ways to change the world. This contrasts to boomers who tend to appreciate big performance, general informality, and comfortable styles of worship.

Those who are in the 20-35 range want similar things, but one item left off of Miller's list is authenticity. They want authentic relationships and experiences. They are used to the 'superficial' church of old and do not want any part of that.

Now don't take offense at 'superficial' it is their frame of reference as they have seen parents struggle with church fights and take-overs, along with a scoop of hypocrisy.

Your thoughts? What do you want in a church? At FBC?

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Brian McLaren

On Friday I had the pleasure of taking Brian McLaren to Goshen College. Brian is the elder spokesman for what is called the "Emergent Church." The Emergent or emerging church basically consists of those, especially younger people, aged 20-35, who seek to have conversation about and trying experiments in moving forward the ministry of Jesus in new and different ways; many times unconventional to the traditional church. They are moving forward in a time when change is a constant and many struggle with what this movement seeks. The major criticisms are about their theology, which tends to be further from conservative, is more open (inclusive), often denies hell, and does not deny the substitutionary atonement of Christ but is close to it.

The Emergent Church is generally disillusioned with the organized, institutional church as it has existed through the 20th century (whether fundamentalist, liberal, megachurch, or tall-steeple liturgical). Its strengths are creative, energetic, youthful, authentic, highly relational. Its weaknesses are somewhat cynical, disorganized, sometimes reckless (even in the theological ideas willing to be entertained), immature.

Brian has received a great deal of criticism. He was wonderfully open to talk to about leadership, family, faith, his books, his theology, his critics and more. While I don't embrace Brian's theology, I have a greater appreciation of the wrestling which occurs when you live in the gray zone of life, and you have the authenticity to talk about it. Many people relish the black and white world because it makes everything fit into tidy sections, Brian does not.

Evidence of Brian's respect among the younger generation can be seen by the fact that he was speaking at Goshen College and will be back at Anderson College in September. His main theological views about life stem from the belief that we are called to live the great life today, and not worry so much about heaven. I sense there is not a very high view of heaven or hell for Brian, but we did not focus on that for long.

Anyway, it was a great opportunity to sit for 2 1/2 hours with an important Christian leader. He could have put on music, made phone calls, but he sat and talked; and I appreciate that very much.

Sunday Night Reflections

Good day at church. Thanks to Dennis for fixing the screen this morning. I really wanted to show the video of the softball game which spoke about doing the right thing at the right time. I really do wonder why we become tearful at these clips, me included. Shouldn't helping one another be a normal part of life?

I believe the question from Esther 4:14, asking if this is the time is vital for our lives as well. What is it that God is calling you to do and be? Sometimes, just like with Esther she had to risk her life. For most of us that will not be the case, but the question remains, what are we to do with what God has given us . . . it's time, it's the right time. Go and do it for God.

Thursday, May 08, 2008

Everything Must Change

Went to the Gaither's tonight to listen to Brian McLaren talk about his new book Everything Must Change. Brian was a pastor for 24 years in the DC area, and has been a prolific writer for the past few years. He retired two years ago in order to write and travel. He is a controversial figure and is considered the elder statesman for the emergent church movement. I'll go into more detail later. His comments were very interesting, right on for much of it, although there are some possible theological hindrances.

I'll learn more about them Friday morning, as I drive Brian to Goshen College. It will be just me and Brian for 2 hours, of course I need to pick him up at 6:30 am, yikes. He and I had a good laugh about the time. Apparently he's not a morning person either.

So, why offer to drive him, when I have work to do? Glad you asked. This gives me a chance to talk to and learn from one of the leading church speakers. He's controversial, but I gain the opportunity to pick his brain for 2 hours and have my mileage paid. It don't get any better than that. Plus, we will talk about church life, ministry, leadership, the emergent church movement, life and more. It's a great opportunity. I'll report back about results.

For now, it's time to get some sleep.

Special Delivery

Doug and I went to the schools in Alexandria to deliver the baked goods which were made for Teacher and Staff Appreciation Week. Many smiles of appreciation came back our way. It's always fun to give something away when it's not expected.

Quotes and Notes

Jeff Bezos, founder and CEO of Amazon.com as quoted on BusinessWeek.com (April 17, 2008)

  • I believe you have to be willing to be misunderstood if you’re going to innovate. That’s actually a serious point. If you’re going to do something that’s never been done before—which is basically what innovation is—people are going to misunderstand it just because it’s new.
That's a great point and reminder for me. When you try something new, something you believe you must do, and must talk about, people will invariably misunderstand you. I have learned that even when I explain why I want to do something, my words are heard, but not listened to . . . as a result there is friction, when there should not have been, because a dialogue was never started.

A great reminder from Bezos. Click on the above link to read the entire article. It's short and easy.



Wednesday, May 07, 2008

Video

I saw a great video about helping one another. I am going to see if I can show it at the end of the message on Sunday, it fits in well.

The main scripture is from Esther 4:14, when Mordecai asks Esther, "14 For if you remain completely silent at this time, relief and deliverance will arise for the Jews from another place, but you and your father’s house will perish. Yet who knows whether you have come to the kingdom for such a time as this?"

What about you, who knows, that you have come to your position, your situation for such a time as this.

The Dating Game

Well . . . it's happened. Joshua is the "hottest" boy in school. At least that is what his 'girlfriend' says about him. Joshua is no longer an eligible young man. He admits he now has a girl friend. The scary part is that she has a cell phone and called him three time today.

The cool thing is that he thought it was cool to ask her to come to church with him tonight for dinner. So, his first quasi date is at church. Oh, what a spiritual boy . . . wonder who he takes after? (Whisper the answer) . . . Debbie.

Nerve wracking days have now started. But it's fun to watch. I just need to remind him to always be a gentleman.

Friday, May 02, 2008

Billy and Miley

Have you heard about the flack about Miley showing her back and the picture below with her dad. I disagree with both pictures, and am diappointed in Billy Ray for getting caught up in this whole mess and allowing his daughter to fall prey to others for the sake of fame and money. To see Billy with his hair slicked back and Miley looking like she does is not the image I would want my daughter to portray, especially with me sitting next to her. Seems Billy is enjoying his moment of fame. Finally, to hear Miley and Billy say they didn't the pictures would look like this is a stretch since they were shown the pictures before leaving the studio. Not a smart move!

Just thought I'd give my 2 cents to the Miley issue.

This leads to the question of how do we protect those we love!?

A New Addition

Well, we gained a new addition today. Joshua and Zachary have been wanting a dog forever, so, we bit the bullet, and Joshua got a baby chick. Yup, you got it, we have a pet. The chick is a girl, whose name is George. Joshua's choice in the name, what do I know. They had 20 chicks hatch at school and he turned in a permission slip from me, and we have a 5 day old chick.

Anyway, George is a cutie, so furry and does not need to go out for walks, easy to feed, he/she is just such a pleasure to have around the house. Of course, we have already found a family for George when he/she grows a little older and bigger and outgrows the box. Hopefully, we'll have a couple of pictures to show you. For now, George is resting comfortably, and so are we.

Actually George squawks, then settles down and when you hold George and rub the side of the wings, George just nestles in your hand and relaxes.

Oh the calming effect I have on chicks... {:-)

Thursday, May 01, 2008

Lost and Found

Last night Debbie and Joshua were playing catch at the Babe Ruth diamond and she realized she lost her wedding ring. A group of people looked, but to no avail. We called Kim G. who has a metal detector and he came in the morning to the field with me to look. While walking around the field, I found the ring. It helped make the Scripture about finding a lost coin in Luke 15 come alive. Ever lose something and find it, and just want to celebrate? That's how we felt.

Strategic Mapping - part 2

This finishes off the article about strategic mapping. I prefer this style simply because it fits with my personality and style. As a visionary, it is difficult for me to follow a set path that someone else sets up. It is the blessing and curse. I cause other people to look at life differently, and I frustrate them because I just don't follow the plan. I've learned nothing is ever set in stone, that is not life, it may be how we would prefer life to be, but that only works when we want it to work, e.g., if someone is dying we want to change the rules, and at other times we want to keep the rules. It is like the waves in the ocean, there is a constant change in the waves and what they carry.

Anyway here is the conclusion ~

Another way to look at strategic mapping is to compare it to jazz. A jazz piece has a basic theme that musicians play all around, improvising as it feels natural to them. The more that strategic mappers chart new courses through unfamiliar territory (starting new ministries), the more natural it feels to play around with the map, trying new paths and scouting out new ministries. Some paths will begin to feel more right than others. Over time, strategic mappers begin to smell dead ends (ministries that won’t reach people) before taking the wrong route. Sure, an enormous amount of thought and planning goes into playing jazz, as well as endless practice. But in the end the great jazz musicians have the ability to instantly and unthinkingly sacrifice the best musical score simply because some flash of intuition has suggested a better sound. They have learned how to improvise as they go.

In the beginning strategic mappers may not have any more than a starting point and a desired destination in mind before setting out on the journey. If the journey is one that has been taken before, then some parts of the map may be drawn in already, but not in detail. If the journey is one that has never before been taken, as is the case with so many effective ministries today, the map is mostly blank between the point of departure and the destination. As the explorers become acquainted with the landscape and the wildlife, they make notes about which paths to take so others can follow. The more people who take the journey, the better the map is drawn. As better equipment is invented, the more detailed the map becomes. Over time a full-blown map to the future emerges for less adventurous leaders to follow.

So the most effective strategic mappers are often forged out of years of exploration. Study after study has been done in the corporate world to discover the ingredients in the making of a leader. These studies have resulted in very little usable data. But one piece of data has emerged: Very few, if any, senior executive types emerge fully formed. Most studies show that it takes ten to twenty years to grow an excellent manager (John Kotter, General Managers). Do you see any comparison here with how Jesus prepared for his ministry? Ever wonder why he was already an old man of thirty (old for that era) before he started to mentor others? We know from Scripture that he began preparing for his role very early in his life, but even he wasn’t ready for many years.

I don’t know about you, but if I’m going to take a journey where very few people have been, I want a seasoned guide who has at least made the journey before. I want that person to at least have some semblance of a map in hand. I don’t mind if the person adds details to the map as we go, but I sure don’t want that person to start with only a blank page to draw the map on.

Like explorers, most strategic mappers learn best on the job. The challenges that confront them and the ways they handle those situations become their primary learning lab. They may be well educated and terribly smart, but if they are not capable of “adaptive-on-the-journey learning,” they will wind up spinning their wheels in some dead-end ministry or worse yet, being eaten alive by some well-meaning church member who knows how to work the system so that nothing new ever transpires.

Strategic mappers are constantly on the lookout for newer, faster, and better ways to do indigenous ministry in a rapidly changing world. They can change course on a dime when they see the path they are on isn’t going anywhere. When mapping a trail through the wilderness, you don’t stop to consider if this is the way it’s always been done or if you are following procedure. You just make a decision: This trail or that path . . . anywhere beats being lost.

That’s where adaptive-on-the-journey learning comes in. If I want to be one of the people to help my congregation navigate through what I call a “wormhole in history,” then I better be a lifetime learner. Better yet, I must see my number-one role in life to be that of developing my spiritual leadership. Here, then, is the number-one reason most church leaders can’t lead: They don’t see life as one big learning experience and they don’t develop their skills as a spiritual guide.

So chew on these tidbits:

· Just about everything I learned in seminary or college is out-of-date already.
· The book I read last year is already debunked by someone.
· Just about the time I think I’m getting it, “it” is no longer relevant.
· If it worked today, the odds are it won’t work tomorrow.
· If I take a look at your library, how many books will I find that were written this year or
in the second or third century?
· If you haven’t read at least a dozen books this year, there is no way you can keep.
ahead of the wild beasts.
· The last thing I learned made so much sense that I instinctively knew it wouldn’t work, so I threw it out.

I’m getting a headache so I’ll stop there, but you get the picture.

What’s a leader to do? Learn from every experience that comes your way and ask, “What’s God trying to tell me, and how do I journal it for the next people to come along behind me?” That’s the ministry of strategic mappers. Nike would love them.

Callouts:

A strategic map gets drawn as the journey is underway.

The destination is more important than the plan!

Strategic mapping, unlike strategic planning, is based more on hands-on experience than on information.

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Strategic Mapping

This will be part 1 of 2 parts on Strategic Mapping. It's an excellent article by one of my mentors, Bill Easum, which identifies how to look at and plan the future of the church.

The article has implications for the way in which the church, our church plans for the future. Do we set a course, strategically plan for it, then work the plan irregardless of the outcomes? Or do we make a map of our preferred destination and work the map knowing nothing is in concrete in life. Read on . . .

Strategic Mappers

Those who follow my antics know that I make a distinction between strategic planning and strategic mapping. To put it bluntly, I don’t think we have time in a warp-speed world to do extensive planning. Moreover, there’s not enough reliable information on hand about the future to do strategic planning. However, I do believe that we must take time to map or chart a course for our journey.

What’s the difference? Strategic plans are drawn before one begins the journey based on the information at hand. Usually one of two things happens: Either people follow the plan even if it isn’t working (because so much time was invested in drawing up the plan that no one wants to discard it), or the plan is placed on a shelf to gather dust.

On the other hand, anyone who has ever charted a course knows that course corrections take up about 90 percent or more of the navigator’s time. Likewise, a strategic map gets drawn as the journey is underway. It is never in concrete like most strategic plans. Consider Moses . . . In taking the people from Egypt to Canaan, he had some idea of the heading on which to begin because he had some idea of the landscape, but he had no concrete plans for getting across the Red Sea. He just knew anything was better than making mud bricks in slavery (continuing the slow death of the congregation), so he started out on the journey. Strategic mapping is starting out on the journey with a general idea of where you want to go, yet being flexible enough to be inspired, take detours, reroute, or even start over again if that is where God leads you. Because the destination is more important than the plan itself!

The reason so many church leaders have problems understanding and accepting this difference is that most of our churches are still firmly in the grasp of people possessed by 20th century Modernity, which includes management by objective, strategic planning, rationality, linear direction, cost-benefit analysis, quality control, and continual improvement. However, in the real world, organizations often find themselves gradually moving in directions they never intended or planned. And if something works, in retrospect they label it a deliberate strategy or a strategic plan. In other words a lot of strategic planning is not very strategic after all.

In his book The Rise and Fall of Strategic Planning, Henry Mintzberg uses the metaphor of a potter at the wheel, where strategy is the clay. The key to the potter's craft is the intimate connection between thought and action: guiding the clay, responding to its shape, bringing experience and knowledge to the task while looking to the future, sensing rather than analyzing, and learning while sculpting the clay. Now we are face to face with strategic mapping, drawing the map, molding the clay as we make our way through the wilderness called life. Strategic mapping, unlike strategic planning, is not based mostly on information as much as on hands-on experience.

Think of strategic mapping as different from a highway map that says “this way” or “turn here.” Think of strategic mapping as topographical mapping, filling in the hazards, terrain, contour lines of the culture, canyons, streams, etc. Strategic mapping is not so much a “do this when this occurs” or “avoid this” or “at the next intersection take a right” as it is “Here is the lay of the land. Where you want to go and what you want to accomplish will determine which paths might best get you there the safest or the fastest.” Tom Bandy has a lot more to say about this in his book Moving Off the Map (Abingdon Press).

Any thoughts . . .?

Lunch with Joshua

Had lunch with Joshua, a Subway sandwich, one of his favorite places. Ate with him and about 7 friends. It's fun and interesting to watch Joshua interact on his turf with his friends, and I act as an observer. Although, two times I questioned Joshua on things. Once, when a girl was talking to him and he seemed to ignore her. . . I know he's at that weird stage in life, but you don't ignore people.

Then I had the privilege of having Joshua, or Deutsch, as many of his friends call him tell me I could go outside and play football with them. I heard a couple of the boys in the game say, 'he's good.' It builds a little of the ego for me, but is great that I still have the energy and ability to go out there and that my child wants me to be out there. Oh, the other issue was an attitude issue during the game. Joshua gets upset when things don't go his way. But he did run back a kickoff for a touchdown and caught one of my passes for another.

I also saw the girl who likes him. Time well spent. It leads me to wonder about anyone with children in their lives, whether younger or older, are you spending time with them, making a difference, just by letting them know you care? Have you said "I love you" lately? If not, don't wait, do it today!!

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

More to come

Actually - I have lots more to say about the previous post, but more to come tomorrow. The ultimate reality is on our supporting one another in the love of Christ.

PS - This is my lunch week. Had a great lunch yesterday and again today. I have lunch with Joshua tomorrow; it's great that he wants to have dad eat with him at school. How do I say no to that one.

On Thursday, I meet with other pastors in Muncie at Damon's for a free lunch (can anyone say BBQ ribs). On Friday, I'll just sit by myself and start a diet. Next week, I already have one lunch scheduled on Tuesday. Frankly, I'm having a good time!!

A view from Clayton King

Someone directed me to this post. It's not meant to be self-serving, but I found it refreshing. Curious about your thoughts. It was written by Clayton King who is an evangelist. The web site of his blog is ~ http://claytonking.com/about/?navPage=about

Here's the blog . . .

The Plague: Restoring Honor

I am sure that a post of this sort offers itself to misunderstanding. I write it nonetheless, in hopes that you will hear my heart and glean the good from it.

The church in America seems to have lost the ancient, and dare I even say Biblical understanding of correctly honoring the man of God; one who dedicates his life to service to God and God’s people (this could be the worship leader, youth minister, or most often the pastor). We have confused honor with obsession, treat our ministers like hired hands, and become addicted to personalities on TV or the internet and swallow anything they try to sell us while starving our local pastor on a salary that allows him to qualify for food stamps.

There is a distrust and skepticism afoot that is a result of the hideous scandals of the 1980’s. And I do believe that the Swaggart and Baker scandals were, in the long run, good for the family of God. That bubble had to burst, and the scripture had to come true that judgement must first begin in the house of God. There have been plenty more, even the Ted Haggard scandal of recent days, that have caused the world to view us with a cynical eye. We should expect this and live our lives accordingly so that the world can see a true Christian witness. But in the wake of these scandals, not to mention Enron and WorldCom, there is a “mood” where it seems that churches treat pastors as expendable, replaceable, for hire and for fire. We almost automatically distrust anyone in leadership now.

I am not advocating that the church makes the pastor a little king of a little kingdom with freedom to do or say whatever he wants. That is insanity. I am advocating for a return to honoring the man of God, not worshipping him, but understanding the heavy burden laid upon him, the struggles and pressures he faces on a daily basis that NOBODY else experiences, and the specific needs the pastor faces that are uncommon to all other people in the church.

Perhaps this is the reason so many pastors burn out and quit ministry. The statistics are staggering, so much so that the Eli Lilly Foundation is pumping hundreds of millions of dollars into churches, seminaries, and other non-profits to try and figure out why pastors walk away and how they can help stop the mass exit. When questioned as to this reality, pastors who quit most often say that a lack of support from the church and lack of understanding from the members as to the stresses and pressures of the job is the largest contributing factor to pastoral burnout.

Can we regain a sense of honoring the man of God without becoming obsessed with personalities or worshipping personas? Of course we can. Pray for your pastor. Slip a $100 bill in his hand after church. Send him and his wife on a cruise. Give them gift certificates to their favorite restaurants. Babysit their kids so they can have a night out to watch a movie and eat a good meal. Stand up for them when you hear gossip. Get their back when they cannot defend themselves against the untrue accusations of others. Encourage the deacons or the elders to take up a special love offering for your pastors family once a year, honoring them with respect and generosity.

When I was a young boy, my daddy and I got our hair cut every other Saturday morning at Garrett’s barbershop in Fountain Inn. And everytime that a local pastor would come in the barbershop to get a haircut, all the men waiting would stand up, take off their hats, shake hands with the pastor, and it made a heavy impression on me as a little boy. Since then, I have made it a personal goal to always honor the pastor when I go somewhere to preach, to always honor him from the stage, to tell him publicly how much I appreciate him and his family and their sacrifice for the church, and then to tell him personally and privately how much I look up to him. This simple practice has opened up friendships between me and hundreds of pastors over the years. Sometimes, they just need to know that we believe in them and that we’ve got their back when they need us. Let’s restore honor, correctly, to the man of God in the church.

MICHAEL'S COMMENTS -

While, I am not asking for donations, although, a cruise would be pretty cool, and not down an Indiana river. What I am asking for is what I have said since I came here, 'respect me as you want me to respect you.' Now, are there major issues you don't know about? NO. But I don't like to hear about rumors or unhappy people from 3rd parties. When someone rips me or one of our other pastors, defend us, don't be silent, even when you don't agree with the person.

My job is to look to the future of the church so the church can advance the kingdom and build it and help it to grow spiritually and numerically; while making sure other needs are being met within the body. Well . . . thanks for listening.

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Systematic Theology

I have really been intrigued more lately about theology. The books I read in seminary were not very helpful. As I have been reading for my doctorate, I have become more excited about just reading a 1300 page theology book. It may sound boring, but it has me really excited, so after I am finished writing my doctorate, I will take an extended time to read theology. My plan is to read 3 or 4 theologies ~ each author's name is linked to their theology book available for purchase at www.christianbook.com or amazon.com

1 - Millard Erickson - Christian Theology. He looks at theology from a Calvinistic (reformed) view and compares it to Arminianism (more Wesleyanism)

2 - Louis Berkhoff - Systematic Theology. This is the grand daddy of reformed theology. It is considered the best of all reformed theology.

3 - Wayne Grudem - Systematic Theology. This is also more of a reformed theology with an evangelical twist.

4. Tom Oden - Systematic Theology (3 volumes) - He comes from a Methodist / Wesleyan view.

If you've read theology, who is your favorite. I am also thinking of doing a basic class in classical theology to help us understand more about our faith.

POP Goes the Church

I mentioned this book last week, in it, Tim Stevens, looks at reasons why church attendance has decreased and at the same time there are more spiritual conversations. He is looking more at pop culture. Stevens believes the church should begin to use its power to influence this culture. The church should help others to know they matter and are loved by God.

The following is from the introduction, which I have copied and pasted ~

"Would your community be any different if your church disappeared tomorrow? Have you ever asked yourself this question? Have you ever considered it with others at your church? If your church suddenly disappeared, could the community even recover? Or would they go on as though nothing at all had changed?

What is happening at your church that is worth talking about? When people leave your service, are they thinking about the e-mails they need to send and the football game they want to watch—or are they thinking deeply about their own choices and thinking how they might make a difference in someone's life this week?

Sadly, for most of us, the answer is a resounding “no.” We didn't even have to think that long about the answer. Our church is great for our friends, our family, and us, but there is little measurable impact on the community. There is little happening that is making a difference outside of the few dozen or couple hundred who regularly attend.

Wouldn't it be great if a local church had a vision big enough to capture people's hearts and motivate them to action, so it had an impact on the community? Wouldn't it be awesome if a church was so effective people began following Jesus, growing in their faith, and as a result, the community was being loved and served?

I love the way John 1:14 is written in The Message. It says Christ “became flesh and blood and moved into the neighborhood.” He came to us—met us where we were. In Jesus' case, the neighborhood was a rural, agricultural society in first century Palestine. He immersed himself in that culture. He wore the clothes, used the language, and illustrated his stories with the signs and symbols of the day to communicate the Gospel of an upside down kingdom here on earth.

If Jesus physically entered twenty-first century America, I believe he would do much as he did in the first century. He would hang out with normal people in the real world, and he would reserve his strongest words for the entrenched religious leaders who love their traditions more than they love their people. I believe he expects no less from us.

The goal of Pop Goes the Church is to stretch your thinking. If you have bought into the belief that church is exclusively for building up the believers, I want you to reconsider. If you think a church service cannot help believers grow AND be attractive to non-believers, I want to convince you that it can. If you have never experienced a church service that stays true to the Bible AND is comfortable for your non-religious friends and you don't think it is even possible, I want you to explore the possibility. The community around you is dying without Jesus, and it is your God-ordained duty to wrestle until you find the best way to reach them. And once you do, don't apologize."

Ice Cream anyone?

Note - If you want a cheap ice cream date on April 30 from 5 - 10 pm, you can go to any Baskin- Robbins store and get a 31 cents ice cream cone. Enjoy your favorite ice cream, and what is it?

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Sunday Night Reflections

Good worship this morning. I felt there was more energy and passion than last week. The first 4 songs seemed to lead everyone to the right place. Good job, Doug.

Doing a baptism is always special for me. It's a great leap and profession of faith. Good on ya', Sue.

I felt people took in the message about reaching out to others. It's not always easy to do, but it is what we are called to do and be. Great to have Doug and his family come forward to join the church. He's been a great addition. As is his family. I look forward to their arrival in Alexandria so I (we) can get to know them better.

Tonight was a carryover from this morning. I was exhausted after a 2 1/2 hour premarial counseling session, which went really well, but as worship began a gained my second wind, which is slowly dying now. We had lots of laughs tonight, but the point of Jesus is to serve, to humble yourself, don't think too much of yourself . . . God will reward you and exalt you. Although, we do need to give thanks to one another and encourage and build one another up in the love of Christ.

So, good day, long day, tiring day.

Blessings and nite - nite~

Wesley Quote

I was asked to reprint this quote whch I ended Sunday's message. It's from John Wesley, the founder of Methodism ~

“Do all the good you can,
By all the means you can,
In all the ways you can,
In all the places you can,
At all the times you can,
To all the people you can,
As long as you ever can.”

Friday, April 18, 2008

Outreach

Read about a church doing the following ~

On the night of April 15th, as Americans scrambled to mail their 2007 income tax forms, members of Pathway Church (Palo Alto, CA) eased the suffering by giving away 1,000 free postage stamps.

As a “Planned Act of Kindness,” they created 500 mini-books of stamps (outreach cards with 2 stamps each). Standing on the streets near a post office, they held signs stating “Free Stamps! Tax-Day Relief!” as they gave away the mini-books. Scott Aughtmon describes people’s reactions,
  • They were so surprised and thankful, you would’ve thought we paid their rent/mortgage for a month! Even people driving by who didn’t need or want a card rolled down their windows and told me, “That’s so cool what you’re doing!”

It's a cool idea, I like the creativity of this outreach. It ministers to people during one of the grumpiest times of the year and gives them a moment of happiness.

What other outreach ideas do you know of, participated in and want us to know about?

I feel the earth move under my feet

I felt it, did you?

Debbie and I both woke up, looked around, and realized it was an earthquake. We turned on the news and they were baffled about what happened.

Of course, if we could have had it an hour or two later, would have fit my sleep patterns better, especially since I went to sleep at 2 am.

M.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Pop Goes the Church

I've been reading a new book, hot off the press by Tim Stevens of Granger church in Indiana. It is a very in your face book, I'm going to include a section of it in my part of the newsletter. I've never done this one before so it should be interesting to hear the feedback, yet, I believe Stevens is right on.

If you see a copy pick it up, it's a pretty easy read.

Business Meetings

I have never been a fan of business meetings, I see too many become disruptive, but I have really appreciated the opportunity to share more and more of the vision God is planting within me. I spend a lot of time preparing for these meetings, more than I do for a Bible Study. But I really believe there will be great benefits in the long run for the church.

So, thanks for listening last night. A quick recap would be to look at the following websites -

www.touchedtwiceunited.org
www.kidshopeusa.org
www.angelfoodministries.com
www.daveramsey.com

I spoke about the needs in our community and what we can do to have a common vision, because I know we are doing lots of great things, but we are also competing with one another for time, people and money; and that is not healthy.

Since that meeting, I feel much more at ease. I was feeling very burdened about the meeting and feeling broken because of the many needs which are not being met in Alexandria. I am hoping to have more small group meetings and have more people get on board to do ministry, active ministry as a church in Alexandria. That excites me!!

This Sunday

I am really excited about Sunday's message. I have no idea what I am saying yet, not one word is written, although there is about an hours worth of stuff in my heart, soul and brain. The text is Matthew 25:31-46.

Read it in advance and pray about it, and for me, and what it means for our church.

Tungsten Ring

Last night (Wednesday) I must have taken off a tungsten ring which I wear on my right hand, and now it is gone, lost, I feel somewhat bare without it, so if you happen to see a tungsten (silver) ring, let me know. There is a reward in store for the finder. It was a Christmas present from 2 years ago.

Disturbing and Troubling News at Home

I learned last night and again today, my little, young innocent first born child, named Joshua, has now been asked on 2, that's right 2 dates. Aaaahhh, he takes after his daddy, a studly man! But, seriously folks, I was not thinking about addressing this stuff for maybe 10-15 years.

Yikes!!! Any unsolicited advice would be welcome, of course, we'll do what we want, but just not sure what we'll do.

The only advice I told Joshua tonight was "never, never, put a girl down, and you don't talk about a girl to the other boys." Hopefully some of that connected, but I'm not ready for this.

Joshua did tell both girls "no", and one of them wants to talk to Joshua at recess tomorrow (gulp). More on the social life of my child later.

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Forensic Justification

WOW!! Deep words, we even talked about this at tonights CE meeting and a bit of what Pelagianism means. This is what doctoral projects do for you. ALthough no sermons, but maybe a Wednesday night to explain how our theology arises from the 4th century, mainly Augustine and Pelagius. For one of the first times in my Christian life, it makes more sense to see our faith from a 4th century construct.

Well, I'm just finishing writing about 5 pages of criticism about Dallas Willard's view of sanctification and forensic justification. It seems strange to be critical of someone held in such high regard, but some of his statements just didn't make much sense to me. For example, look at this statement from an article I found written by Willard,

The "aim of disciplines in the spiritual life - and specifically, in the following of Christ is the transformation of the total state of the world. It is the renewal of the whole person from the inside, involving differences in thought, feelings, and character that may never be made manifest in outward behavior at all."

I don't get how you can be changed on the inside, in your heart, because of Christ, yet not have any corresponding outward actions! That does not compute for me, so if you have any insight which leads me to be reading this statement the wrong way, let me know. I might add, this was in my first submission and was not questioned.

Anyway, I have only 1 1/2 more items to update, correct, etc. One is a deeper explanation of Paul's statement about being a new person in Christ from 2 Corinthians 5:17. That will take more thought and more theological reading about the indwelling of the Holy Spirit.

Blessings and nite nite!!

Monday, April 14, 2008

International Fest

Had a great time at the International Fest at the High School.

I met a number of students who are seeking a spiritual relationship, and many others who were just curious about religion. I shared my story with a number of students and teachers. Overall, it was a fun event for me; and I had the opportunity to meet new people and make some new relationships which who knows how God will lead the youth and adults to Christ.

I hope to be asked next year; and I will have pictures, etc. to share. Some pictures of gang members from Chicago who I worked with fell out of my Hebrew Bible and I was able to share about working with Chicago gang members as well.

Fun Kids Devotional

God Gave Us the Bible: 45 Favorite Stories for Little Ones is a very well done, hardcover introductory Bible for parents to read with thei...